Tips to avoid disputes with your husband

Disputes occur constantly between the couples, but there are some wives and husbands who can solve these problems and go through them. Others can not do so and the separation or divorce is the solution. Therefore, it’s necessary for both spouses to learn how to go through disputes and to avoid making things worse.

* A smart wife does her best to get her husband’s association and his love for her that he cannot do without her. She does so by supporting him and encouraging him all the time. Also, woman should always be kind and tender towards her husband and also a source of joy and hope for him.

* Avoid blaming your husband in all your problems. Of course he is not responsible alone for your problems. You should also avoid contention for long periods because it makes things worse. Try to resolve your problem and disputes calmly until the problem is solved and life is returned to its natural course.

* It is essential that both spouses learn to listen to the other party. Most of us ignore doing so and finally we find things have become complicated more. Therefore, each spouse must listen to the other with interest without interruption until the speaker can express all what he wants and explains his point of view as this helps in solving problems.

* You should learn to use different methods and techniques to capture your husband’s heart by smiling, caressing, understanding and listening. Also, you should avoid cruel words because of their bad effect on the other party.