Make your ex boyfriend get over you with these quick tips.

If you are getting bombed with phone calls and text messages from an ex who won’t just leave you alone, you may want to take action to prevent it and it is best to do that sooner because the sooner the better it begins to really affect on your life. Here are quick ways to get rid of all that annoyance.

1. Do not feel guilty.

You made the decision to end the relation and you surely had a very good reason to do that, so don’t, under any events, start to feel guilty concerning it. You haven't done anything wrong; it was your ex that has a problem, it wasn't you. You will have to stand strong about this and hold onto your guns. You will be doing him a favor by making him understand that the relationship is actually over.

2. Don’t give him any faith

If he is quite besotted with you, it is very likely that he will be waiting for anything that he can use as a sign that you might get back in a relationship, so be mindful that you don’t give him any false hope to cling to.

3. Talk to him quietly.

Try to tell your ex, strongly, but calmly, that the relationship is done and that you don’t wish to see him once more. If he is bothering you, tell him that his calls and messages are bothering you and ask him to end. Your initial step should be deciding to appeal to him and making him realize that the relationship is done.

Ask your boyfriend these questions to feel much closer!

The greatest way to feel close to a person is to know more about them and, so, you will need to ask few probing questions. If you want to know more about what causes your boyfriend to tick, then go ahead and ask him these questions that should give some pretty revealing answers that will make you closer together.

1. Is there anything you can never forgive?

The answer could give you an insight into his past, his feelings, and the beliefs that he holds. Whatever we find unacceptable is usually shaped by our personal life experiences, so, if he states he could never forgive cheating, it is more likely that he has been cheated on in the past. If he answers this question sincerely, you will discover a lot more about the guy you are dating.

2. What would your ideal day be like?

Do not let him run away with the answer of “a day with you” on this question. Force him to take a little more seriously and you discover more about him. You could ask him to go over a whole day; from when he would get up, to what he'd do to fill the perfect day. This will help you learn the things he prefers to do and what will make him content.

3. If you could advise your younger self with anything, what would it be?

This is another one of excellent questions to ask your boyfriend. This question could get him to talk about his childhood and that could tell you a lot about him. Knowing someone’s past is a great part of getting close to someone. The answers he provides could be pretty sad, but they will absolutely help you understand how he grew to be the person he is now.