Do these small things to make you happy

When you ask someone what makes you happy in life, he may answer that having expensive car or a villa with a swimming pool or having a lot of money to buy everything could make him happy. However, these material things are giving temporal happiness and they won’t last. You should try to find happiness in some little things everyday.

-   For example, try to play with a child who likes you. When you play with kids who love you, you will feel happy how you make them happy and laughing. They will give you self confidence that you are a wonderful person.

-   Sometimes you find money in your pocket that you forgot everything about it. Of course, you know how much this lost money makes you happy all the day especially if you were running out of money.

-   When a stranger smiles at you, it’s really an amazing thing. This smile will make you feel happy as it shows you that there are nice people in the world who love to smile and make others feel better.

-   Having extra time for sleeping will make you feel so delighted. When you wake up and look at the clock, and realize that you still have an hour to sleep again, you feel so happy and content.

-   Sometimes taking a hot and long shower will make you feel happy. You will feel be refreshed and relaxed. It will help you to get rid of the sweat and dirt that has been annoying you all day long.

-   When you meet an old friend you will be happy. Both of you will remember your past days when there weren’t any responsibilities or bonds.

Do These 9 Things To Be Happy With Yourself.

You need to stop thinking about what you are going to do to make people happy and take a moment to think of yourself and what makes you happy, joyful and fulfilled! It is easy with these 9 tips to be happy all the time with yourself and be the happy person you deserve to be!

1.     Accept yourself and Stop trying to be perfect

Don’t wait for people’s opinion and their approval to make sure you are good at something, beautiful, confident or whatever.

2.     Follow your heart and follow your own instincts.

listen to what your heart has to say! And follow your gut and be happy for real.

3.     Be kind to yourself and take it easy.

Don’t punish yourself or blame yourself too hard if you failed or made a mistake!

4.     Stop comparing yourself with others, love and enjoy who you are.

There’s only one version of you, perfect you!

5.     Do what you know is the right thing to do.

When you know what you are supposed to do, DO IT!

6.     Be honest with yourselfand be honest with others.

Don’t lie to yourself or others about anything no matter how small the issue is!

7.     Make compensations.

If you’ve hurt someone, even unintentionally, apologize right away and make it up to them!

8.     Follow your dreamsand don’t be afraid.

Work on your dreams and fulfill your destiny!

9.     Practice gratitude every day.

Make gratitude your attitude!

Avoid these five things to be happy

Each of us do things that may hinder our happiness in one way or another, whether these things were intentional or not. But, when you actually realize that you are the responsible for making yourself unhappy, you will inevitably stop doing these things. Here are the most prominent of these things in this article.

*Permanent busyness: Of course sitting all the time without doing any work does not bring happiness, but the preoccupation in a permanent way is very harmful to your psychological health. Therefore, try to take a break every now and then in order to give yourself a rest from tension and stress.

*The exaggerated attention to your appearance: It is very important to take care of your beauty and your look as you are promoting your self-confidence. However, when your care for your appearance becomes devoted to please people and their opinion of you, this will make you unhappy contrary to what you may think.

*Delay on appointments: Do not be surprised, dear. If you never delay on your appointments you will be happy as you will be relieved from stress and tension which may hinder your enjoying of life.

*Focusing on unrealistic goals: One of the most important things that may make you unhappy is seeking and trying to reach unrealistic goal. It will never be achieved and you will not be happy as a result.

*Excess trust of yourself. Your self-confidence is, no doubt, the key to happiness, but when this self confidence is increased greatly until it became pride, you will not be happy because you will only see what you do and not the target of it.